They say that confession is good for the soul. . .

. . . so here goes. 

Each day in my inbox I receive a Daily Challenge email.  The email challenges me to do something practical that will, I’m sure, have a positive impact on my life. . .(if I chose to do them.)  To be honest, my usual practice is to avoid the email and click delete before opening them.  What can I say. . . I’m a mom of two with a recently surgery’d (yep, I made up that word) foot.  I’m lucky to make it through the day just getting food on the table. 

Anyway, when I received the Daily Challenge on Sunday, I quickly pointed the cursor arrow over delete, but before clicking the button I saw the Challenge for the day:  Clean out one kitchen cabinet today.

Dangit.  Immediately, I felt guilty. 

Blogger friends, you may or may not remember one of my first blog posts, in which I confessed that I am addicted to cookbooks and cooking magazines.  And you, my blogger friends, were so kind as to give me so many great suggestions as to how to consolidate my collection.  But, I must confess. . .

I’ve made little (or no) progress.

Ahhh, that felt good. Confession really is good for the soul.  While I’m at it. . .

Sometimes, we find the kids things in the most strange of places.  Why Chanelle’s sunglasses are in the refrigerator, I don’t know.  In fact, we left them there. . . just to see how long it takes her to notice them. 

Sometimes, we throw chocolate chips in the pancakes. . . simply because they ask.  Maybe I won’t make mom of the year for feeding my kids a perfect diet, but really, you’re only young once, right?

Sometimes, I let my kids do things I would usually never let them do. . . just so I might get them to smile for a picture.  Like, stand on the counter, for example.  I’m sure they must be confused by my making an allowance on one day and forbidding it another.  They’ll figure it out, right? 

Sometimes, I give my kids a bath simply to buy myself some time.  They love to play in the water.  Chanelle goes to one bathroom and Charlie to another.  They play, while I fold laundry, vacuum, or just put my feet up and breathe for a moment.  I see nothing wrong with giving a bath at 12:30 in the afternoon.

Sometimes I like to pretend I’m a photographer, when really I’m just a girl who likes to capture a moment.  I’m more than okay with that. 

Lastly, and there is no picture for this one, I can’t pass up a good Lifetime movie.  (I realize the “good” and “Lifetime movie” might be seen as a contradiction. . . but I get sucked in every time.  But really, how can I not with such splendid titles as “Mother May I Sleep with Danger?”, “A Fare to Remember”, “Crimes of Passion: She Woke Pregnant, and my most recent favorite “The Craigslist Killer.”
I know, I know. . . have I no shame?!

Seriously, though, I’ve found that it’s okay not to take myself to seriously.  It’s a good thing to laugh. . . especially at myself. 

Wow, all that started with the stinkin’ Daily Challenge email that made me feel guilty.  I guess this post got a little out of hand.  If you’re interested in receiving the daily challenges, click here. . . Maybe you will one up me and actually do them.

“To make mistakes is human; to stumble is commonplace; to be able to laugh at yourself is maturity.”
William Arthur Ward

  • Trophy Life - January 11, 2011 - 1:56 pm

    oh man. this whole thing made me laugh. esp. the bath at 12:30! hysterical.

    i want to point out one small (but HUGE) thing: motherhood has changed you, but not CHANGED you. does that make sense? you are doing this Mom thing as the genuine/unique person that you are. and for that i admire you.

    the sunglasses in the fridge? priceless.

    p.s. – i signed up for your challenge. mine for today is to do 10 calf-raises. sorry 'bout your luck that you can't do them, so maybe i'll do 20 – 10 for me, 10 for you?ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - January 11, 2011 - 2:28 pm

    I feel like I wrote this post. 😉

    Every time I open my cookbook cupboard (which somehow also became the play-doh, sticker, random pieces of craft paper cupboard???), I tell myself I'm going to clean it out and organize it. Never happens. …although I kind of like the feeling I get as I rummage through all the loose papers until I find 'the one'. It's a great feeling to hold that crinkled piece of food dripping covered paper in my hand, knowing the history of it. How many times I pulled that hand written paper out, accidentally dropped ingredients on it and enjoyed the final product. I'm weird. 😉ReplyCancel

  • Summer - January 11, 2011 - 2:43 pm

    TL, maybe knowing you are doing the challenges will motivate me more. Strength in numbers? (I just did 10 1-leg calf raises.) 🙂

    ST, parallel lives we live. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - January 11, 2011 - 4:07 pm

    Hm. Yes. The Daily Challenge seems like a toss-up between giving you something to feel good about each day, and something to riddle you with guilt as you're trying to fall asleep each night. I says if you do even one of them a week, you're doing GREAT. 🙂

    I will laugh about the sunglasses in the fridge all day today. 🙂 Love you, friend. (That picture with the cardinal is LOVELY.)ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - January 11, 2011 - 9:28 pm

    Laughed!!!! I know in talking to a special lady we both love she told me how she used to clean one drawer a day…..and I keep saying my bedroom and closet will get organized…….
    Love the picures. So how long were Channelle's sunglasses in the fridge?? You need to try banana choc chip pancakes, yummy:)ReplyCancel

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