I am currently tucked away in a corner of a crowded cafe.  It’s the lunchtime peak and voices echo from every direction.  To my left sits an older married couple.  It’s hard not to notice how few words pass between them.  How’s your salad?  Silence.  Do you want a cookie?  Silence. I wonder if their […]

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  • Sassytimes - January 23, 2012 - 8:04 pm

    Ahhh, I am so bad at this. I'm always playing the "when xyz…" game. I need to stop and listen too. Thanks for the reminder.ReplyCancel

  • Anonymous - January 24, 2012 - 4:38 am

    I felt like this during this past weekend too–WHEN I WAS TALKING WITH YOU!!!! I think we both did a good job at living in the NOW! We were Friend to Friend. Nothing else mattered. I mean seriously, we walked the mall and barely noticed people, loud noises, chaos and even the stores that were surrounding us! It felt like time had stopped…no joke! And then the time we sat at Noodle & Company swapping real life stories…I didn't notice much of anyone when we were there…heck, I forgot about the meal and barely ate my food! 🙂 I can't remember the last time I just sat still and took life in with a friend….if so, it must have been a long long long time ago! I am so glad we took the time to slow down and listen to each other. True friendship, indeed! I hope to do more of this "living in the now" thing with my precious family! Because moments like that are precious!!!!

    JoEllenReplyCancel

  • Summer - January 25, 2012 - 12:50 am

    JoEllen. . .I agree with every word you wrote.

    Every. single. word.ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - January 27, 2012 - 1:00 am

    Thank you Summer!!! We need to live in the NOW!! We can't worry about then because we never know what will happen.

    Thanks for the reminder!!!!

    LYReplyCancel

Earlier this week I chuckled when I read a status update of a friend on Facebook.  She shared that she had just returned home from taking her daughter to preschool in her p.j.’s for P.J. day.  When she arrived, however, she learned that P.J. day was not that day, but the following day. I imagined […]

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  • Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns - January 20, 2012 - 4:14 pm

    What a lovely story. I wish I had gotten it so clearly when my children were that age. Now they are grown. The damage done. And we move on. I especially love the image of the baby girl on the couch with the grown men. Priming her for football games, it appears! ;->ReplyCancel

  • ally, zane, avery and nola - January 20, 2012 - 5:43 pm

    i think the rising above a few million times over will outweigh the falling short a few hundred times 😉
    and last year, it never crossed my mind to make valentines for avery to take to her school. negative gold star there.
    beautiful pictures as always!ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - January 20, 2012 - 7:56 pm

    My friend and I were just talking about this…how these little people constantly remind us what is important in life and it's rarely what we are focusing on at the time. Just the other day, I was stressing to make dinner and have it on the table and Sophia casually walked in and said, "Mama, be happy. Smile. Just be happy." and walked away. Dinner doesn't matter…Duh me!

    I'm glad I'm not the only one that forgets things. 😉ReplyCancel

  • Kendra George - January 26, 2012 - 5:22 am

    Girl, crying AND all out belly laughing in the SAME MINUTE!!:):) Love you for your honesty, I'm new to this stay at home mommy thing, and man, I feel like I'm learning more about myself in these moments than any other! You are awesome, Summer!!:) Thanks…once again!ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - January 27, 2012 - 1:05 am

    O do I remember those days!! Even if I wrote it down or taped the paper to the fridge!! Wait though till they call you and say I forgot ….. can you bring it please. Of course you do the first few times but then you realize they need to be responsible and say next time I will come in my pj's and rollers in my hair:)

    You are not alone all moms do this!!!ReplyCancel

About eight years ago, I was required to sit in front of a video camera and tell an unknown person why they should accept me into their graduate program.  I recall the afternoon vividly.  It was a Monday–the day Chad and I had off work.  I remember sitting on a chair in the living room […]

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  • lisa - January 18, 2012 - 2:16 pm

    "who I was then is not who I am now"…so powerful and true those words are- and exactly what I needed to read! 🙂

    Can't tell you how much I relate to that story you shared of your fear…I have felt like that before and it's so hard to figure out.

    you are so inspiring! hugs! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns - January 18, 2012 - 5:58 pm

    What a great story of breaking through barriers. Thanks for sharing. ;->ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - January 19, 2012 - 12:55 am

    You are beautiful…I always love your thoughts and words. Inspiring.

    LOVE that photo.ReplyCancel

  • Trophy Life - January 19, 2012 - 2:13 am

    this remains the same: you were my dear treasured friend then, you are a source of joy and support now, and you will be making me laugh and standing by my side to the very end (and vice-versa!). love you, always.ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - January 19, 2012 - 2:54 am

    I would have been the same and prob still would. But so true on that we are not the same we are and o change, facing our fears. Knowing yes I can! ESP with God and the people he surrounds us with.ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - January 19, 2012 - 2:54 am

    I would have been the same and prob still would. But so true on that we are not the same we are and o change, facing our fears. Knowing yes I can! ESP with God and the people he surrounds us with.ReplyCancel

I have spent the last few days trying to decide how I want to make this introduction.  How do I adequately introduce a woman for whom words are so very inadequate?  A woman whose spirit is so much bigger than her small stature?  A woman whose impact reaches so far that I’m certain her influence […]

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  • Anonymous - January 17, 2012 - 10:01 pm

    Morven rocks!!ReplyCancel

  • loanheadlass - January 19, 2012 - 4:05 am

    Oh sweet girl, you are so kind. Thank you for your encouragement … and for the joy of walking along side you. I hope that companionship continues to change shape but continue over the years to come. Blessings to you this day.ReplyCancel

  • Iris Took - January 20, 2012 - 5:15 pm

    What a nice intro! I usually just post a pic of a welcome mat and link. 🙂

    Checking out Morven now….ReplyCancel

Things change. There are times when change happens in a moment.  Other times, it takes a life time.  Always, though, things change.  Things change especially if you live where we live.  Last week the sun shined brightly in the sky.  The warmth of it’s rays reached far enough to point the gauge of the thermometer […]

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  • Adopted aunt - January 16, 2012 - 6:17 pm

    O Summer I can so agree with you. Funny Change has been on my mind a lot to lately. My oldest is home, graduated from college, doing the waiting game with several job opportunities on the plate and waiting. I know God is in control but I know what I want for him. Brett was home and played special music at church and played and sang. He is maturing and growing so fast in college, wasn't it just yesterday when I could put them in the tub for fun time? Hearing a stranger say about all the good things about your oldest which was what you wanted. Yes, change comes whether our hearts are ready or not. I look at meadow and say to Shawn can we adopt a little girl? Yes, I did, even with my health issues. I started a new job at 46. What will the future bring, good, bad. So glad Gid is in control. You are a wonderful mom to come up with all these ideas! Give them all hugs and kisses for me. I will prob be calling soon:)ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - January 17, 2012 - 5:43 pm

    This weather is wacky, right? Love all the snow photos. We didn't get a chance to enjoy the dusting we got…it was way too windy.

    V loves the bath too. It's amazing.ReplyCancel

  • lisa - January 18, 2012 - 2:12 pm

    That's what makes you so very interesting and engaging to read! Don't knock yourself, silly girl! 🙂 You ARE an amazing mom…and by opening yourself here you are helping to inspire others. I think that's pretty cool!

    One of my most treasured pictures I have is of my 3 boys all in the tub…those are just the best memories ever!!!ReplyCancel