. . . a labor day. Well, for some of us, anyway.  Or, some of them. It seems that Chad is nesting.  Our house has been in major disarray for about a week.  Kitchen table and chairs in the living room next to the stove and dishwasher, couches shoved in corners, carpet torn out, and […]

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  • Sassytimes - September 6, 2011 - 12:42 pm

    We labored all weekend too, also with the help of very humbling friends. I kept thinking the same thing….how great are these people to give up a day of their Holiday weekend to help us? And help us do something not so very fun (landscaping our backyard with rock), in the heat, when they could be with their families. It IS a very humbling feeling.

    Thank you for thinking of me with this whole preschool thing. We have orientation this week to meet her teacher and then she starts (all alone) next week. ๐Ÿ™ I have so many, probably odd, worries. I know in the end she'll be fine, right???, but I can't stop worrying about silly little things. Heaven help me. ๐Ÿ˜‰ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - September 6, 2011 - 1:27 pm

    Wow! We barely left the house this weekend, and I'm still exhausted! ๐Ÿ™‚ You guys are inspiring. Can't wait to see the final result!ReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - September 6, 2011 - 2:11 pm

    What else do you do on labor day but labor?! Isn't it a blessing to have family and friends who will labor with you just because they love you? You know you would do the same for them. And what better time, you can sit and give directions:). Love the smiles and looks of wonder in their eyes. I am still protesting not seeing them on thurs:). You know you will have me stopping in more:). LyReplyCancel

Without a doubt, we all have moments in time that we carry with us forever.  Tiny snippets of  memories that are etched in our minds and played over and over again like a well worn cassette tape of the 80s.  Some of these memories are painful, drawing out tears and heartache as we relive hurt, […]

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  • Adopted Aunt - September 5, 2011 - 10:55 pm

    O I know just what you mean! Darrick and I did it and so did Shawn and him. Then Brett came and it was harder. But there is nothing like that moment. I hope you slept. Such a wonderful memory thanks for the reminder. Hope your day has been wonderful.ReplyCancel

  • lisa - September 6, 2011 - 12:12 am

    awww…such a beautiful moment for sure! thanks for sharing that with us. it brings a flood of memories of my boys (now entering puberty! boo hoo!) as babies…just yesterday we were all talking about how they used to call PT Cruiser cars "PT Yugers" …it just hurts at times this whole growing up thing! I miss my lil' boys….ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - September 6, 2011 - 2:09 am

    This is so sweet. I don't think there is anything more precious than a sleeping 'baby', no matter how old they are. ๐Ÿ˜‰ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - September 6, 2011 - 1:25 pm

    Oh, I loved this. ๐Ÿ™‚ I'm so glad you both got this moment, however fleeting!ReplyCancel

I’m not exaggerating when I say that I’ve been worrying about this for years.  It probably started within their first year of life. I’m supposed to let them go?  Loosen my grip?  Put them in the hands of other people that I don’t know and trust that they will be cared for as well as […]

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  • Written Permission - September 1, 2011 - 12:53 pm

    Ohh, this made me cry, Sum. I have absolutely no idea how you parents do this — I know when it's my time, I will be an absolute mess. I, too, will be the mom who always cries. ๐Ÿ™‚

    But how great that, despite your fears and feelings, you allow your kids to forge ahead on their own and feel confident that they can do it. You're an amazing mom, my friend.

    Love you.ReplyCancel

  • lisa - September 1, 2011 - 2:28 pm

    I'm sitting here crying with you…it's okay to be the mom that cries. I honestly don't know how a mom could NOT cry…If I ever met a mom like that, I definitely don't think I could relate to her. I have always looked at my boys as my heart walking outside of my body. There are no words to express the depths of my love for my children- just the dang tears that creep up while trying to deal with this whole "growing up" thing…it's such a bittersweet process.

    hugs to you ๐Ÿ™‚ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - September 1, 2011 - 5:11 pm

    Oh man, I fear the lump. I know it will happen to me. I know it.

    …and I love the last line of this. I'm one who always cries too. At 3 years old, S already tells me, "Mama, it's okay, I'm just getting bigger, it's okay." ๐Ÿ˜‰ReplyCancel

  • Dri - September 1, 2011 - 7:09 pm

    I am "the mom who cries" too. Healthy or unhealthy, it is who I am. I'm learning to accept it and I'm sure my kids will too – with an eye roll inserted. ๐Ÿ˜‰ReplyCancel

  • Trophy Life - September 1, 2011 - 9:54 pm

    oh, friend. i love that you cry. never change. i loved the photos – a LOT!! i loved hearing the accounts of both first days and i especially loved hearing all of Charlie's questions. your kiddos are 2 totally different little ones. LOVE it. love you.ReplyCancel

Each day in my inbox I get a short message from The Brave Girls Club.  More often than not I open these short messages and delete them before my eyes come to the first period.  (What can I say?  I’m a busy mom of almost three.)  But today was different.  Today, I paused and my […]

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  • Trophy Life - August 30, 2011 - 11:26 am

    awww, very sweet and very true and a noble cause towards which to work….

    thanks for sharing!ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - August 30, 2011 - 12:27 pm

    Oooh, I love this. What a great reminder.ReplyCancel

  • lisa - August 30, 2011 - 1:11 pm

    i absolutely LOVE this! thanks so much for sharing this quote…& link! this is something i've been working on in my life for the last 6 months and it's very easy to go off course, forget, and take things for granted…i don't want to live my life that way anymore.

    beautiful words to live a beautiful fulfilling life!

    ๐Ÿ™‚ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - August 30, 2011 - 3:11 pm

    Sigh. I needed this today. Thank you for sharing, friend!ReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - August 30, 2011 - 6:59 pm

    Pretty cool and thanks! I think we all need to be reminded of this! I think us woman are just emotional. I just sent hubby and my oldest to DC to be with the US Marshalls. Did I cry? Yes. Thanks for sharing.
    And I cried when my nephew just started and for my two adopted niece and nephewReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - August 30, 2011 - 6:59 pm

    Pretty cool and thanks! I think we all need to be reminded of this! I think us woman are just emotional. I just sent hubby and my oldest to DC to be with the US Marshalls. Did I cry? Yes. Thanks for sharing.
    And I cried when my nephew just started and for my two adopted niece and nephewReplyCancel

Sometimes in life, if you’re really lucky, you meet a friend who stands before you like a mirror.  Not the kind of mirror that you’ve become accustomed to. . . the one that highlights the grays in your hair, or that you are too fat or too thin or that your nose is too big […]

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  • lisa - August 29, 2011 - 1:40 pm

    Oh you are soo blessed to have found that kind of friendship in adulthood! That is one of those things that is so important for us women….but ever so hard to find the time for yourself and your friendships as you grow and develop your family life. How wonderful for the both of you! ๐Ÿ™‚ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - August 29, 2011 - 2:47 pm

    What a lovely tribute!! I'm so glad you both found each other. ๐Ÿ™‚ReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - August 29, 2011 - 9:55 pm

    Wow! Happy birthday Lisa. You are two blessed woman to have each other.ReplyCancel