We have been asked the question a lot. . . “what is behind Meadow’s name?”  I thought I would take an opportunity now to answer the big question.  Of course all of us take great care in the naming of our children.  We are no exception.  I feel that in naming our children we begin […]

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  • Anonymous - November 23, 2011 - 1:42 pm

    the name is perfect for Meadow and your family. period.

    i believe that kids (and, ewww, even grown-ups) make fun of people's names and mock them no matter what they are.

    (this is Miss, still not signed in, but don't feel like fixing it!)ReplyCancel

  • heidi - November 23, 2011 - 5:03 pm

    Summer, It's so cool to read about how you named your children, and I think you picked very well. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Adopted sunt - November 23, 2011 - 9:38 pm

    I am glad you explained Summer but when I first heard the name I thought "sweet, tranquil, pleasant, a place you want to go to". I also thought about your mil and how she would love to build a house I. The meadow. I believe it's a beautiful name. And by the pics I have seen she fits it well. I love it. I actually I the last several months have been wondering why my parents went from Jacquelyn to calling me Jackie. While both are good I really like Jacquelyn better. A name is important. I just can't wait to see her, hold her and look. And of course I am missing the other two like crazy!ReplyCancel

  • lisa - November 23, 2011 - 9:56 pm

    I absolutely LOVE the name! And from getting to know you and your family thru this blog of yours…it just seemed to fit so beautifully!

    What a sweet story behind her name…I am the same way about naming my babies! It had to have special meaning…I can't imagine she will ever dislike her name! She's just as beautiful as her name is….Congrats again!ReplyCancel

  • mommathieszen - November 24, 2011 - 2:18 pm

    Summer, I love hearing the stories behind their names! We are big into names and heritage too. Our kids' middle names (besides Nora, who will have her own Haitian heritage in her middle name) are all family names as well. There is something about passing on the family heritage into them, we feel is important. As far as first names, we went more with what we liked and what they meant. Both had to gel with us for us to settle on it. You are right, however, that either the name makes the child or the child makes the name. I truly feel like God has meant for each of our kids to have the first names they have–the meanings will speak something into each of them that Micah and I want them to grasp as TRUTH in who God made them. The fact you can tell Meadow such a wonderful story behind her beautiful name is a treasure. I grieve that I only have one grandma left and she has Alzheimers so she wouldn't be able to help me ever pick a name. Cherish and treasure that moment you were able to have with her–a joining of your past and your future. How special. And as far as the name itself–it fits very well. The first thing I thought of was actually how many pictures I see on your blog of the natural surroundings of your home and the peaceful views of a meadow-type landscape with trees springing up here and there. A slight mist hovering over the ground–it's just a picture of God's created beauty. Meadow is also a picture of God's created beauty. She is also a beautiful "product" of you and Chad. Chad–a lover of trees and landscaping and you a lover of nature in general…it just fits.

    For your future needs….

    Meadow, you are a beautiful creation of God–don't let anyone ever tell you differently. Believe what you know to be true about yourself–YOU, Meadow, are a delight to the Lord and to your parents. Your name has meaning and depth behind it that others will always long for. The fact your parents didn't name you Jane Doe says more than you think–it means they love you, they are intently focused on you, and they care about you and your future as well as your past. Be blessed by your namesake, Meadow, be blessed…God has intended for you to have the name Meadow since before you were even formed in your mama's womb…that's the beautiful Truth.ReplyCancel

  • Ky • twopretzels.com - November 28, 2011 - 9:38 pm

    You know, when I read Meadow's name for the first time it just made sense.

    It's calm, and beautiful… it's perfect.

    I truly love it.ReplyCancel

I don’t even know where to begin.  There is just so much.  So much I want to say about the happenings of the last four days.  I anticipate that I will have trouble putting my thoughts into any semblance of cohesive words.  As I lover of words, I suspect there is no way any compilation […]

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  • Anonymous - November 22, 2011 - 1:18 pm

    had my coffee ready to go! and the kleenex : )

    i loved these thoughts, truly. it was beautiful to read. love you and miss you and can't wait to meet her.

    love, missReplyCancel

  • Stacy - November 22, 2011 - 1:27 pm

    I love this post. Thank you for sharing Summ! I LOVE her name. Can you make a post sometime on what made you pick it?ReplyCancel

  • MamaMimi - November 22, 2011 - 2:21 pm

    You write beautifully! Welcome to both your daughter and my grand daughter Alexandria…both on the same day, same hospital just a few rooms away from each other. One a morning birth, one later in the day. Double blessings!! I hope one day they can meet and swap birth stories! : ) Julia ProperReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - November 22, 2011 - 2:34 pm

    What to say but you have a beautiful family! She is precious just as Charlie and Chanelle are. You will be a wonderful family. Love is abounding in my heart along with the tears. Love you all. Hope to see you soon. Please give all kids hugs and kisses from me.ReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - November 22, 2011 - 4:56 pm

    Oh, friend. This was just incredibly beautiful and poignant and SO well-said and raw and emotional and…perfect. Do I even need to tell you I cried ALL the way through? 🙂

    What a gorgeous little girl, and what a perfect family she has joined.

    (For some reason that group picture in the hospital slayed me more than any other — just the way your dad is looking at you. Beautiful.)

    Love you, Sum. Thank you for sharing this!ReplyCancel

  • mommathieszen - November 22, 2011 - 5:37 pm

    She is gorgeous, Summer…and so are you. Your words echo my own thoughts after giving birth to Quinn. There was something about his birth and infancy that was different than the other two–not rushed, not chaotic, not forgotten. I cherished those days more than I have ever cherished days. Maybe because we feel we missed out on Toby's-maybe because it was GOING to be our last, maybe because even though we are gaining another little girl, I will miss those days in her life and God knew I should just cherish them with Quinn. Whatever the reason, I am forever grateful for God allowing me to experience them that way. I am praying for you to never feel like you need to be doing anything other than what you are–simply being present and soaking up all the richness in the blessing of birth. It does go fast–I just took Quinn in for his 2 year pictures this morning…2 years old. It just can't be. I look forward to watching little Meadow as well as Chanelle and Charlie grow up through your eyes…and perhaps, just maybe, meeting them face-to-face one of these days so our kids can play and we can chat NOT over the computer, but face-to-face as well. Someday…

    I've said it before, but again, congratulations, friend, and bless you beyond measure in your motherhood.ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - November 22, 2011 - 5:45 pm

    She is absolutely beautiful. What a sweet post. I love all of your photos. Hope everything is going well for you as you adjust to having a new member of your family.

    (Our new member does not want to come out…he's cozy.) 😉ReplyCancel

  • Ky • twopretzels.com - November 22, 2011 - 5:53 pm

    I don't know how you found the time to write this post! BUT I AM SO THANKFUL YOU DID.

    Friend, you know I love you.

    What an amazing post. A proper formal modern-day birth announcement via blog post. Love it.

    I have to tell you, I'm just so happy for you.

    I simply cannot WAIT to see all of the bajillion of photos you take of her. And I cannot wait to see how she just "fits" with Charlie and Chanelle. I'm on pins and needles waiting for a snapshot family portrait… with your new little brunette.

    LOVE.

    So happy for you.

    THANK YOU for sharing this with all of us.

    P.S. I love her name.ReplyCancel

  • sara - November 22, 2011 - 7:51 pm

    WOW! You put into words exactly what I felt with my fourth and final. It is a beautiful thing. Thanks for thinking and placing the emotions all into words. What a joy to read and relate to!!ReplyCancel

  • lisa - November 22, 2011 - 8:17 pm

    absolutely sobbing!! 🙂

    i just am so over the moon for you! she is just beautiful…and please fill us in on the inspiration for her name…i love it!! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Abbe - November 23, 2011 - 12:17 am

    what a beautiful, lovely, heart-felt post. the photos are gorgeous, and i agree… the ones where the family is meeting meadow are priceless. so thrilled for you, and so blessed to be able to read and SEE your musings as you transition to 5. congrats again!!ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - November 23, 2011 - 2:39 am

    Summer. As I read again your post I get tears in my eyes and even think, hm I want a little girl but would need to adopt. Your words are beautiful and so full of love. I started today at the Berlin gift barn it was fun except for your previous children not there. I am in desperate need of their hugs and kisses and tussling. Your meadow is so precious. Your mom is happy! Enjoy Summer. Much love can't wait to get there.ReplyCancel

  • Summer - November 23, 2011 - 5:08 am

    Thank you to each one of you for celebrating with us. Your support and love mean the world to me.ReplyCancel

  • Charbelle - November 23, 2011 - 10:44 am

    Oh Summer, congratulations!!!! So beautifully written and Miss Meadow is so gorgeous!!! Sending hugs from Charlotte!!ReplyCancel

  • Adopted aunt - November 25, 2011 - 4:52 pm

    You know it puts the idea of adopting a sweet girl from china in my heart and mindReplyCancel

It’s a post about eggs.  I’m not even talking about the sperm fertilized kind of egg that eventually became Meadow. I’m actually referring to the real come-from-the-chicken kind of eggs. The hard boiled kind, to be exact.  I am anxious to write about Meadow and the glorious experience it has been to bring her into […]

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  • Sassytimes - November 21, 2011 - 1:03 pm

    LOL! I've done this so many times with other food items. Glad I'm not the only one who has lapses in brain activity. 😉

    Take your time! Can't wait to hear all about her.ReplyCancel

  • lisa - November 21, 2011 - 2:04 pm

    Take your time hon! We will all be waiting to hear all the wonderful details! I am so happy for you! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Trophy Life - November 21, 2011 - 2:06 pm

    summer – your excuse for "mommy brain" while Meadow was in utero was acceptable, but this?!? just kidding! you'll get your culinary genius mo-jo back soon, i'm sure! boiling water is difficult…
    love you. heeeheee.ReplyCancel

  • Anonymous - November 21, 2011 - 5:26 pm

    Too Funny!!!

    AshleyReplyCancel

  • mommathieszen - November 21, 2011 - 6:43 pm

    Awesome. Evidence that you are truly enjoying every moment…I love that.ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - November 22, 2011 - 3:11 am

    This makes me feel better and I don't even have a beautiful new daughter to "blame". But if you put the eggs in the pan Chad should have put the water in the
    pan:). Sorry Chad.

    Can't wait to hear all those beautiful words that are in your head. Or even more to see her and all of you.

    Ly allReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - November 22, 2011 - 3:11 am

    This makes me feel better and I don't even have a beautiful new daughter to "blame". But if you put the eggs in the pan Chad should have put the water in the
    pan:). Sorry Chad.

    Can't wait to hear all those beautiful words that are in your head. Or even more to see her and all of you.

    Ly allReplyCancel

“Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing than self-defense, and as courageous as either one.” – Gloria Steimen As most of you know, Summer is pregnant…so because she is seemingly out of action on this day, I (the impregnator) decided to take over her little corner of the web and share my thoughts and […]

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  • Anonymous - November 18, 2011 - 12:07 pm

    Great post, Chad!

    AshleyReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - November 18, 2011 - 1:29 pm

    Tears.

    Great post. Congratulations and welcome Meadow!ReplyCancel

  • lisa - November 18, 2011 - 1:51 pm

    WOW! What a great post!! couldn't read this without crying! So happy for you all.

    Congrats on baby Meadow! Love the name… 🙂

    hugs to you all!!! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • mommathieszen - November 18, 2011 - 2:37 pm

    Oh crap, Chad. You should have warned me. I'm a big mess over here now. How incredibly precious. Love on that wife of yours and now your precious baby girl too…what a blessing! Now I'm ready to go meet my daughter in a bad way : ) Our girls will just be under 2 months different in age from one another–what a blessing. Give Summer my love. She's a profound blessing in my life even though she probably doesn't know it and even though we live so far from you guys. God uses her! Miss you both!ReplyCancel

  • Morven Baker - November 18, 2011 - 3:12 pm

    How beautiful is this? You are blessed beyond words. My prayers are with you all, but especially this little Mama and wee Meadow.ReplyCancel

  • Trophy Life - November 18, 2011 - 3:28 pm

    so amazing!! i loved the guest post and loved the brief glimpse into your world with this new little one. so happy that you are Meadow's parents.ReplyCancel

  • Ky • twopretzels.com - November 18, 2011 - 4:42 pm

    Oh Chad, to hear from your perspective, as the impregnantor (tee hee) and the EVER supportive husband… so awesome.

    You succeeded in making me cry. 😉 The tears started right here: "I watched as she would turn her head toward her mommy’s voice."

    I'm so happy for your perfectly family of five.

    HUGS to you all.

    P.S. Meadow's name is beautiful.ReplyCancel

  • Anonymous - November 18, 2011 - 5:03 pm

    Okay, first of all==CONGRATS to a beautiful baby girl, whom I can NOT wait to meet! 🙂 I love her name!

    second of all==You go Chad! Its hard to admit, but you made me cry!

    last of all==praying for you Summer. I am sure this is a bittersweet time for you with your mom not here. Know that I have been and will continue to pray for you as you journey on in this life with you amazing family by your side.

    MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL!
    JoEllenReplyCancel

  • Written Permission - November 18, 2011 - 6:40 pm

    Chad, seriously, did you really have to call yourself the impregnator? 🙂

    Friend, you know I'm teasing. This was a WONDERFUL guest post. I loved hearing this from your perspective, and love how much you love our friend Summer. I cried PRECISELY at the same place as Kylee — what a powerful moment, and beautifully described. I know it was a day of happy and sad tears, both — what a blessing that, even through tears, little Meadow made her triumphant debut!!

    I loved every word. Please hug Sum for us.ReplyCancel

  • Adopted Aunt - November 19, 2011 - 3:02 am

    I read this this am in DC where we are visiting Darrick. Yes Chad you did very well. Must have more of your mom in you with the beautiful, loving words. Meadow us one lucky girl. So is Summer who has you to have been therewith her. Of course she missed her mom, but she was there cheering her on.

    Can't wait to meet this sweetie!ReplyCancel

  • Anonymous - April 27, 2012 - 9:35 am

    Today is good indisposed, isn't it?ReplyCancel

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I think I might be nesting.  I can’t be certain, but I think so.  Pregnancy Weekly defines nesting as “an uncontrollable urge to clean one’s house brought on by a desire to prepare a nest for the new baby, to tie up loose ends of old projects and to organize your world.” Oh my, it […]

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  • Trophy Life - November 16, 2011 - 12:58 pm

    baby number 3? yea right – you have Sasha, Wolfy and 489 of their closest friends that you are apparently mothering as well.

    what a lovely post and i just knew that your last day with the kiddos would be a fun post.

    love you.ReplyCancel

  • Sassytimes - November 16, 2011 - 1:32 pm

    What a wonderful last day with C & C. The stuffed animals made me laugh. I bet, together, we could fill a room with stuffed animals. My kids love them too.

    Best of luck with baby #3. Can't wait to hear all about it. I'll be thinking of you!ReplyCancel

  • lisa - November 17, 2011 - 2:41 am

    Make sure to write down the names of all their special animals in their baby book…I didn't and so regret it! Thought for sure they'd never forget- but one day they did…and now I only remember half of them…so sad 🙁 And don't be embarrassed about how many you have- I guarantee you that I have you trumped! (and have taken LOADS to goodwill when no one is looking! 🙂 Somehow more keep finding their way back in though… 🙂

    Keeping you, baby, and family in my prayers! Anxiously waiting your return- with MANY pics!! Take care and God Bless! hugs!ReplyCancel